What is the most important trait you want your partner to have?

• DW

  dwhimsy

  2026-01-08

  At least like me

• HI

  himazin2610

  2025-11-26

  kindness

• DA

  dayvee.d9

  2025-11-26

  Empathy

• SA

  sasfi84614

  2025-11-26

  そもそも存在して欲しいです　😭

• SO

  sora25_25

  2025-07-03

  Ability to relate to everyone with integrity.

• SH

  shutaro10_20

  2025-07-03

  Personality

• AM

  amerikahitomonsuta

  2025-07-03

  Honesty with herself and with me. That’s where the cooperation and the joy comes from in both of us. Allows for a baseline of concrete respect.

• 11

  111_smokey_111

  2025-07-03

  I don't really care I'm fine with anything at this point

• JI

  jifeng3177

  2025-07-03

  Stable emotions

• JP

  jpac2559

  2025-07-03

  頭脳

• ST

  stibba2g4u

  2025-01-31

  morality

• NA

  narwallcanart

  2024-10-03

  not sure umm not transphobic i gues

• AF

  afkrobot

  2024-09-30

  Self-awareness

• JA

  jad_99

  2024-09-30

  She has to be supportive

• FE

  fedor.v.emelianenko

  2024-09-30

  Honesty

• MI

  min_eb

  2023-10-07

  to behave what they think right.

• SR

  sru3360

  2023-10-05

  It’d be nice if they were someone who questioned things, and didn’t just follow the herd, but that’s not necessarily at the top of the list

• NA

  natta999

  2023-10-05

  strong enough to be my equal one, show me a trait of weakness or obedience then I will exploit until you can bear it no more.

• NA

  nacricissa

  2023-10-05

  Being purely theoretical

• FR

  fritoone

  2023-10-05

  My one non-negotiable is that he's gotta be a Christian and love God more than me.

• UM

  umeshuwithsoda

  2023-10-05

  I don't ask you to be masculine, so don't ask me to be feminine

• TA

  takkun5591

  2023-10-05

  I think I want her to have moderation and common sense. And, I think I want her have financial sense commensurate with income. That's about it. There is nothing special about appearance.

• LO

  lobtergod

  2023-10-05

  Thinks 60s, 70s, and 80s music tops all

• JT

  jtrain

  2022-11-13

  Probably someone who is cool with me and isn't like "wtf why is she like that." So like, nice but not a Nice Guy if that makes sense

• IL

  ilikeyoo

  2022-11-13

  it seems kind of cheesy, but i think the most important thing is probably trust? i feel amazing when i know someone can depend on me fully, and it's a great thing to know that you also have someone that will never turn their back on you

• とう

  とうふ

  2022-11-13

  I think i easily get influenced. Speaking from my experience, i first fall in love with someone and then end up liking everything about that person. Once i love someone i can tolerate most things and change my beliefs also to accept my partner in most cases. So I don't really have some categories that I look for in someone

• FR

  fritoone

  2022-11-13

  He’s gotta be Christian.

• CR

  CRAZY_CATASTROPHE

  2022-11-13

  I don’t plan on being in any sort of relationship for a long time, but I guess one thing I value a lot is honesty

• まり

  まりぶ

  2022-11-13

  I've been want various things greedly, but I don't think I would decide to break up because of that I think most important ting for me was if the person doesn't love the way I look, I will never choose him as a partner. I don't have time to date with a guy who says,"you don't look like my type, but I'm going to date you because you have a beautiful personality" or "I don't look for outside beauty in my girl friend, I like normal plain girls" or something like that. it's not too painful to wear clothes that the person prefer, but IF he think "I wish her nose was a little taller..." or "I wish her eyes were a little bigger...", I've been always suggest that just go on a date with cuter girl he thinks. It doesn't mean that external beauty is the most important thing. I just can't stand spending the most beautiful and younger time in me with someone who doesn't know how good it is.

• カラ

  カラス

  2022-11-13

  boring answer but open minded..

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