What's the worst thing about being your gender?

• D

  d***

  2025-09-18

  lol

• A

  a***

  2025-09-18

  Everything revolving around children. Some crazies out there get real weird when they see a man and a child w/o the mother around. In divorce proceedings, the man is also significantly less likely to get to keep and raise the children, even if they are more stable than the mother. In some circles (not mine, thank god) emotionality is also a big problem. God forbid a guy cries or talks about his feelings. I've heard from quite a few acquaintances how doing that has ruined their relationships with women. The one that I am actively most affected by is fashion though. Male fashion is ass, don't @ me.

• B

  b***

  2025-07-19

  Constantly having to avoid the opposite gender to not look like a creep

• S

  s***

  2025-07-19

  Nothing.

• D

  d***

  2025-07-19

  Short lifespan

• W

  w***

  2025-07-19

  so many problems, i probably can't talk about it

• R

  r***

  2025-07-19

  cleanliness

• A

  a***

  2025-07-18

  Expectations of brutal labor with little to no mental and emotional support. Not all, but many men carry the same expectations as a mule.

• L

  l***

  2025-07-18

  Man idk

• W

  w***

  2025-07-18

  being told by someone to act manly

• T

  t***

  2025-07-18

  今、ぜんぜんスキンケアやメイクを作ることが知らない

• I

  i***

  2025-07-18

  probably the fact that a lot of people don't respect it

• F

  f***

  2025-07-18

  Can't express my emotions

• N

  n***

  2024-11-08

  Like in general or personally?

• W

  w***

  2024-11-08

  This doesn't matter much anymore and I just got reminded of this because of the question, but my elementary - middle school was *incredibly* sexist(in this case, girls > boys). It was so bad where it got to the point where if a boy did something to get in trouble, let's say he had his phone out in class, he would probably get threatened with a lengthy ISS or OSS, while if a girl did it, all they had to do was cry and there was no punishment other than getting told not to have your phone out 😭. If you were male, you had to constantly be making sure that you didn't do anything against the rules otherwise you would have to do some stupid punishment(such as cleaning the whole cafeteria or other rooms, don't ask cause I *definitely* didn't have to do these ever).

• U

  u***

  2024-11-08

  Height. 身長.

• N

  n***

  2024-11-08

  uhh im trans so i guess its the demand of being clean and quiet im loud as fuck

• K

  k***

  2024-11-08

  nothing, i love what i am.

• H

  h***

  2024-11-08

  Disrespect from the other gender Your physical integrity can be in danger

• T

  t***

  2024-11-08

  i guess the thing where im not really allowed to express certain emotions without being seen as weak

• W

  w***

  2024-11-08

  - Higher suicidal rates - shorter lifespan - higher chance to get cancer - higher variety of cancers to get - decreasing privileges with maintained expectations. I'm all for equal standing but the outcome should also be presumed equal.

• O

  o***

  2024-11-08

  離婚後何があっても慰謝料は支払わなければなりません...

• N

  n***

  2024-11-08

  金玉痛い

• T

  t***

  2024-03-21

  日付

• A

  A***

  2023-06-13

  Balls hurt for no reason

• L

  l***

  2023-04-25

  Less variety of clothing is acceptable, although boys in dresses are cute too and i love that i can protest by doing that. Anyway i think being a boy is better other than how people are more willing to think youre a creep. AFAB get away with so much more creepy behavior imo

• N

  N***

  2023-04-24

  Being aggressive, maybe.

• カ

  カ***

  2023-04-24

  peeing while having a boner

• R

  R***

  2023-04-24

  You get falsely accused of sexual assault Never get custody of kids Generally less cared about Some women literally trying to erase you One phallic soft spot

• と

  と***

  2022-10-31

  || random boners ||

• U

  u***

  2022-10-31

  being short, not looking good in male's clothes

• I

  i***

  2022-10-31

  less opportunity ? in other countries maybe ?

• ま

  ま***

  2022-10-31

  period

• C

  C***

  2022-10-31

  nothing really tbh lol

• F

  f***

  2022-10-31

  Men not knowing how to be men.

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